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About 10 yrs ago when I got married (been divorced 2) we spent an upwards of $38K on the wedding. Now my ex is half Italian and Half Greek and at our wedding I had 15 guests but she had 120 (YES ONE HUNDRED AND TWENTY!) guests.
In retrospect given I've been divorced for a while now we should have put that money towards a house instead of waiting another few years. It also became clear that it was mostly her day and not mine.
Why do most women (and of course the finger wagging hip thrusting lip puckering effemate men :lol
ignore the reality of a wedding day? It should be about two people right? Afterall the guests come eat drink dance and leave.
Does the event justify the cost? And if you paid half the cost of the wedding, if you're giving up the house during divorce shouldn't you ask for your half you put into the wedding back? Just a thought.
In retrospect given I've been divorced for a while now we should have put that money towards a house instead of waiting another few years. It also became clear that it was mostly her day and not mine.
Why do most women (and of course the finger wagging hip thrusting lip puckering effemate men :lol
Does the event justify the cost? And if you paid half the cost of the wedding, if you're giving up the house during divorce shouldn't you ask for your half you put into the wedding back? Just a thought.