My partner and i have an extreme kind of relationships. When we're good we're awesome but when we're bad we're a mess and things go down hill fast. I am addicted to drugs, alcohol (active), smoking (active) and gambling and my partner is addicted to all of the above plus sex. Im concerned that its become a recipe for disaster as im willing to take control of my addictions but my partner isnt. He says 'yea ill get help' but then the following day hes buying a box of alcohol??? Its stressing me out and its the behavior associated with these addictions thats hard to live with. Just venting, anyone in a similar position?