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Hello,
i've only ever posted once on here before in the financial section, long story short, he wants access to my accounts, and he doesn't work. we are newlyweds.
so.....
we started marriage counseling. We've been in HUGE fights because of all this money stuff (along with some other stuff). Finally, i had it! i told him our marriage was still so new, i was getting an annulment the next morning, we BOTH said hateful, hurtful things to each other...THEN! He comes in to our room, which I had kicked him out of earlier that night and wants sex like nothing ever happened! ick! i didn't want him naked anywhere around me at that point.
so then, we go to our counseling session, "make up" with each other (sort of...) at least we weren't annulling our marriage anymore, but still fighting about lots of things, and he wants sex ALL THE TIME! This is the LAST thing i want from him at this point. I don't want to kiss him, or anything. his behavior makes me physically ill. I'm not normally "non-sexual" and have a very high sex drive, but lately, I don't want him close to me, let alone having sex with me... Am i wrong? Am I just being a frigid witch? Now I feel guilty.
i've only ever posted once on here before in the financial section, long story short, he wants access to my accounts, and he doesn't work. we are newlyweds.
so.....
we started marriage counseling. We've been in HUGE fights because of all this money stuff (along with some other stuff). Finally, i had it! i told him our marriage was still so new, i was getting an annulment the next morning, we BOTH said hateful, hurtful things to each other...THEN! He comes in to our room, which I had kicked him out of earlier that night and wants sex like nothing ever happened! ick! i didn't want him naked anywhere around me at that point.
so then, we go to our counseling session, "make up" with each other (sort of...) at least we weren't annulling our marriage anymore, but still fighting about lots of things, and he wants sex ALL THE TIME! This is the LAST thing i want from him at this point. I don't want to kiss him, or anything. his behavior makes me physically ill. I'm not normally "non-sexual" and have a very high sex drive, but lately, I don't want him close to me, let alone having sex with me... Am i wrong? Am I just being a frigid witch? Now I feel guilty.