So no expectations then?I take back what I said the other night. I messaged her anyway. It wasn't a dating relationship she was just an old friend from a long time ago that reconnected with me after my mother passed away and vanished without so much as a reason a few months later. And I felt like nothing more than an emotional crutch to her even in the face of tragedy. I don't expect a response back from her but it was closure in a way. I've held onto a lot of pain over the years with several things and this was something I'd never even considered a few months ago but thanks to a hell of a friend I made on another forum (she's the BEST) that's helped quite a bit and our current situation, I did.