You should go shopping together. My wife is very shy in a adult toy store...very nervous about running into someone who might know her...and see her buying pleasure toys. It also helps if you get a female store salesperson to help. I always ask the saleslady to point out the items that are the best sellers to women, and she shows us plenty! My wife is much more relaxed and open to new things when we take this approach.Take her along
It's a fun and funny thing to do together.Ease the tension by laughing your butts off at the comically large toys and go from there
I recommend the Lelo vibes, too. Well made, lots of options in the speeds and rhythms, and they are rechargeable. Some are waterproof. Go to the Lelo website to read descriptions, then read reviews on Amazon.My wife would be very reluctant to go o a store. She is quite happy to browse Amazon.com with me.
She particularly likes the 'Lelo' brand. Check them out. Very classy and work a treat.