I have never had a problem like this before and I'm not sure how to deal with it. I have gone to my friends and they have gave me advice but it's like I can't be completely upfront and honest about it so here goes..I have been with my husband now for 12 years and they have been great, but here recently within the past couple years alot has changed between us. We spend less and less time together and sometimes we don't even say i love you,also he has always had a temper and here recently it seems like his temper is worse. I mean he has never hit me or anything but he does yell alot and it seems like any little thing I do can get him upset with me. I just sit and wish sometimes we could go back to how we used to be. Other part of this problem is I have started talking to another guy. It was nothing serious at first just chatting, but within the last couple weeks it started getting serious. We have alot in common and he makes me laugh and smile again. I know it may sound vain but he does tell me I'm beautiful and that's not something I hear from my husband very often anymore. This new guy I'm talking to as even went as far to saying he loves me and would like for us to be together for good. I don't want to hurt either of them but I know it will happen eventually. I know this makes me sounds like a bad person for even talking to another guy while I'm married but I'm just very confused about what I want right now. I sit and think if I will be able to just walk away from what I have known for 12 years even if I'm not fully happy and go with someone who I know will make me happy and treat me well. I wonder if i will ever regret leaving my husband who I have always loved but sometimes makes me feel more like a kid than a woman. Just wanting to get some opinions on this I really don't know which road to take. I feel either one I take someone with get hurt.