I don't know if this is the right place for this vent but I'll just dump it here for the time being.
Seriously I am so angry and upset that people who are supposed to be there for me are making my life even more stressful at the moment.
It's only 10 days since my husband announced he loves someone else and I have had a complete breakdown. Normally I am the in control person who helps everyone through their problems and now, when I need people they are being so selfish it's unbelievable to me.
My so called best friend is very high strung and I've always helped her through many problems in her life. Her reaction when I told her what had happened was anger to the point that it drove me to a panic attack. She kept insisting I find out who she was even though I told her repeatedly I didn't want to know anything more about her.
She totally ignored my request and went on a witch hunt to find out who the OW is (because in her words she needs to hate her) even though it was none of her business. Others are saying she meant well, but honestly, I just think she wanted drama so went and created it. When I told her I was upset about what she'd done she acted like she'd done nothing wrong and now I haven't heard from her for two days! I just feel like, thanks for nothing. Thanks for adding to my stress at the worst time in my life and making it all about you!
Then, another supposed good friend who I work with keeps texting me to say how terrible work is and how I better come back next week or she'll have a nervous breakdown from the stress. I just can't believe the selfishness of these people that I've given so much to over the years.
Anyway, I'm seeing my psychologist tomorrow to talk about my apparent bad judgement of people in general and how to work through these disappointments. Honestly, I have never felt so vulnerable in my life and I just want to be focus for myself for a little while. Surely that's not too much to ask??
Seriously I am so angry and upset that people who are supposed to be there for me are making my life even more stressful at the moment.
It's only 10 days since my husband announced he loves someone else and I have had a complete breakdown. Normally I am the in control person who helps everyone through their problems and now, when I need people they are being so selfish it's unbelievable to me.
My so called best friend is very high strung and I've always helped her through many problems in her life. Her reaction when I told her what had happened was anger to the point that it drove me to a panic attack. She kept insisting I find out who she was even though I told her repeatedly I didn't want to know anything more about her.
She totally ignored my request and went on a witch hunt to find out who the OW is (because in her words she needs to hate her) even though it was none of her business. Others are saying she meant well, but honestly, I just think she wanted drama so went and created it. When I told her I was upset about what she'd done she acted like she'd done nothing wrong and now I haven't heard from her for two days! I just feel like, thanks for nothing. Thanks for adding to my stress at the worst time in my life and making it all about you!
Then, another supposed good friend who I work with keeps texting me to say how terrible work is and how I better come back next week or she'll have a nervous breakdown from the stress. I just can't believe the selfishness of these people that I've given so much to over the years.
Anyway, I'm seeing my psychologist tomorrow to talk about my apparent bad judgement of people in general and how to work through these disappointments. Honestly, I have never felt so vulnerable in my life and I just want to be focus for myself for a little while. Surely that's not too much to ask??