Gently, maybe you were not the only one in this relationship that saw a change. Nagging and complaining can take a toll on someone. It’s hard to comment when we are only getting one version of the story. If my hot, independent gf wanted me to go to Miami with her, I’d go in a heartbeat. What are we missing?
He can’t handle stress. At all. And he was super stressed from work. Plus he said he couldn’t go the entire time, he could only go for 4 days, and even then he said he needed to work while he was there and video in for conferences.