Update - Moving forward

So I thought I would pop on and give an update on how I have been doing. Some of you may remember my story. I separated from my husband in January - or he separated from me rather. Found out about his "soulmate" after he left and we divorced in July. I pushed it through pretty quickly after trying everything that I could to save the marriage. I wasn't willing to wait around for him to get his head out of his ass.

So fast forward to today. Things are really looking up for my daughter and I. I closed on my brand new home in September. I started my Master's degree and accepted another excellent job offer a few weeks ago. I'm not dating yet. I'm just not even close to being ready. I'm not a casual relationship type of gal and after a 14 year relationship I need some time to heal and get grounded. I still have days of sadness but every day has gotten so much better. I keep pushing forward and building a new reality for myself. And at 32, I am positive great things are still to come.

As for him??? You other BS's will appreciate this.

He is still with his tramp - the soulmate - and has moved 2.5 hours away to be with her. He lives in a motel room at one of the haunted locations he used to investigate. He moved in to the motel when he could no longer afford the trailer/love nest he was renting from a friend. Now mind you the motel room is actually quite a step up for him - his first choice was a pop-up camper that he wanted to rent from a friend and live in her backyard. Ahh living the life!

He is also covered if cheap fake jewelry which I haven't quite figured out yet. Bizarre.