IC = Individual CounselingI agree with you. This is why this is so bothering. I look at my husband and I think he is a really great guy. Aside from being short (which I put aside as purely material and something I shouldn't concern myself with) - he is really great, super loving (he stays in touch with me when he is at work during his breaks), not doing do any of those bad things that would stress me out (like cheating or going out drinking and returning in the wee hours of the morning) - he helps around the house- took care of us for 4 years after my son was born without placing any financial limitations on me etc. He is a nice guy, hence I cannot figure what is my problem. But depression may be it. What do you mean IC. Sorry but not familiar with clinical terms, I rarely visit the doctor... I go only when I am in dire straights.
That's always a good place to start with issues you described. But I would also see a doctor since they can deal with possible depression. And this is dire straights in my opinion.