So what's your plan? I say your plan because you can only change yourself and your response to him and what he's doing.I have been unhappily married for almost 6 years now. Im just fed up with hubbys inability to provide for me is the last straw.Im starting to resent him for it.
Try to get Social Security Disability from the Government not the state. My friend is getting it & her husband's huge paycheck is not a factor. It is free to file for & if you get turned down, you can hire a lawyer at no cost until the case is settled.It's not easy as your stating. I have been applying and trying to get a non labor job for 3 years now and no luck. They all say you have to have more training and thats why I went back to college to get the training. I can't do physical jobs cause of a physical disability and the state says its my hubby job to support me so no help from them. Yes my dh promised to support me til I finish college. But my dh always breaks his promises to me over and over again. Im not just a money hungry wife looking for someone to support me. Im doing the best I can with the limitations I have.
Well follow your plan and good luck to you. If you've tried all you can to keep your marriage on track and it's still not working, it's best to move on. Maybe once he sees you getting ready to leave he'll actually make changes for himself.My plan is to finish college and get a job. I will be supporting myself. Im stuck in the mean time.I have no idea we have tried everything to help our martial problems including counseling twice . He promises he will change and never does.