Traits narcissists find attractive in others:
Do you fit that bill? Does your brother?1. Above Average Intelligence.
Emotional stalkers seek very intelligent, really bright, highly skilled, well-trained victims. They look for enthusiasm and passion about their career.
2. Good Work Ethic and Personal Accountability.
Stalkers look for their victims to be very responsible and hard workers, always complying with an excellent achievement of responsibilities assigned.
3. Extreme Perfectionists.
Victims tend to believe nothing they do is ever good enough, forever striving to receive acknowledgement, meanwhile doubting their true worth.
4. Dependable and Always Ready to Help Others.
Victims tend to keep a low profile and have no wish to overshadow friends or work colleagues.
5. Underlying Low Self-Esteem and Low Self-Confidence.
Victims of emotional stalkers crave acknowledgement from their partner, though forever doubting their worthiness of it. This is what makes them vulnerable.
Stop cruelly criticizing and blaming yourself, and take a deep look at who it is you are in a relationship with. If the person you love fits the above described behavior and traits, you need to move on with your life sooner than later.