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Well, here is my advice.

He has hurt you on a fundamental level. It might take years to fix it. Only you know for sure how much you can endure and decide if you could wait two or ten years while the hurt is fixed. But if he keeps going back to it that means the healing process can not yet begin if at all. He has lost trust in you. This has cause a break down of communications which I see as the base to every working relationship.

The part that is the hardest to read is that your husband did this again after you told him that it hurt you.

For the relationship to work your husband has to want to fix things and has to go out of his way to do it. If not then the question is can you live like this for the rest of your life and what if these habits get worse?

Divorce is hard. But sometimes you can leave something that isn’t working and find something better.

I wish you the best, I hope you keep us updated.

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