My wife and I just recently had a baby. When we first found out that she was pregnant, she started spotting and went to the ER. I met her there and the doctor came in. He was young and just rubbed me wrong. He had this perverted vibe about him like he was enjoying looking at my wife too much. I didn't say anything because I didn't want her to think I was jealous but I this guy creeped me out. He kept trying to push her gown all the way up and he was touching her almost sensually. Enjoying it too much for my taste but I said nothing. I felt powerless but in situations like that she gets upset at me. While we were getting the discharge instructions from him, this guy made a flaigrant pass at my wife. I told him that I was her husband and gave him the "look". She just wrote it off but it bothered the hell out of me.
Now fast forward and her mom sends her to another doctor. One that she's used for several years. Now I'm new to the whole GYN thing... But this was my first child and I didn't want to miss a thing. Its already uncomfortable watching another man touch my wife and seeing her get undressed infront of him also. But I sucked it up. But he made a pass at my wife. One day while we were in his office, he says to her "you're gonna need a car... Not just to come see me, but really you're gonna need one for the baby." I didn't say anything. He then, while we were walking out, rushed past me to rub my wife's hand "to say goodbye". I thought it was odd seeing he doesn't do that for all his other patients.
He got in the habbit of calling our son "his baby". This struck me as off also, but I figured it was an indearing thing. But when she was in the labor room, he did it up until her mom and my mom came into the room, then our son became "the" baby. I told my wife I don't like him and asked that she not see him anymore after she finishes with her post partum check-ups. She of course got upset at me.
I know I'm not bugging but this is nagging me. Her regular GYN is a man and I have no problem with him. He is professional and if he has intentions or anything else he is damn good at hiding them. I don't think my wife will cheat on me at all, but she tends to be very naive or just fakes it. IDK what to think anymore. A little help would do wonders.
Now fast forward and her mom sends her to another doctor. One that she's used for several years. Now I'm new to the whole GYN thing... But this was my first child and I didn't want to miss a thing. Its already uncomfortable watching another man touch my wife and seeing her get undressed infront of him also. But I sucked it up. But he made a pass at my wife. One day while we were in his office, he says to her "you're gonna need a car... Not just to come see me, but really you're gonna need one for the baby." I didn't say anything. He then, while we were walking out, rushed past me to rub my wife's hand "to say goodbye". I thought it was odd seeing he doesn't do that for all his other patients.
He got in the habbit of calling our son "his baby". This struck me as off also, but I figured it was an indearing thing. But when she was in the labor room, he did it up until her mom and my mom came into the room, then our son became "the" baby. I told my wife I don't like him and asked that she not see him anymore after she finishes with her post partum check-ups. She of course got upset at me.
I know I'm not bugging but this is nagging me. Her regular GYN is a man and I have no problem with him. He is professional and if he has intentions or anything else he is damn good at hiding them. I don't think my wife will cheat on me at all, but she tends to be very naive or just fakes it. IDK what to think anymore. A little help would do wonders.