Just wanted to say how much people here have already helped me. I made my jealousy post not even a week ago and when I put the advice to work I was greatly surprised by the outcome. H and I had our first real talk (the solving problems kind) for the first time in a very long time. I felt a lot better and more confident in myself and my relationship. He agreed to counseling and we are going next month. We have been communicating so much better, every single day. He answers all of my questions, listens attentively, and gives input (he use to listen but never say a word) He has even spoken up on issues he would like me to work on. Such as my overall attitude in the mornings and of course my jealousy. I am very happy and thankful to everyone who helped me!