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Two different visions of the past and the aftermath of my wife's affair
It's been five months since my WW moved out and then in with her AP. I was thinking back to when she told me she was leaving me for him, and aside from the obvious trauma of hearing that, I almost instantly began thinking about our shared past, 11 of those years with my daughter.
I thought about all the wonderful times we had as a couple and as a family and how right up until I discovered her cheating, she seemed to be enjoying marriage and family life as much as me.
I'll always be amazed at how she was able to just leave me and and 11 year old daughter and start a new life with someone else, it shows the power of an affair, and that she obviously had a different vision of how things were in our marriage that she never expressed to me.
This has changed me. She destroyed my ability to trust, and altered my way of looking at the world and relationships. I wake up thinking about this and it's my last thought before I fall asleep. The damage to me and my daughter is immeasurable.
It's been five months since my WW moved out and then in with her AP. I was thinking back to when she told me she was leaving me for him, and aside from the obvious trauma of hearing that, I almost instantly began thinking about our shared past, 11 of those years with my daughter.
I thought about all the wonderful times we had as a couple and as a family and how right up until I discovered her cheating, she seemed to be enjoying marriage and family life as much as me.
I'll always be amazed at how she was able to just leave me and and 11 year old daughter and start a new life with someone else, it shows the power of an affair, and that she obviously had a different vision of how things were in our marriage that she never expressed to me.
This has changed me. She destroyed my ability to trust, and altered my way of looking at the world and relationships. I wake up thinking about this and it's my last thought before I fall asleep. The damage to me and my daughter is immeasurable.