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I typically have at least 3 orgasms before Mr. Pink penetrates me. Once he penetrates, he is speeding to the finish line, I have been primed with several prior orgasms, and the final orgasm for me doesn't take long at all. PIV usually doesn't last more than 3 minutes. There are times when he can last much longer and I love those times because we switch to different positions and I generally get an orgasm in each! After those times, I am dead to the world for the rest of the night.

There are times when he will penetrate me with one of my toys either before or after PIV because he/we wanted the sex to last longer.

Mr. Pink is rarely ever able to go for round 2 until a solid 12 hours have passed.

Mr. Pink also takes Cialis due to his blood pressure problems. Cialis/Viagara don't do anything for longevity, nor for turn around time, they only help to open e blood vessels so erection can happen.

Having good control is a good thing, but there are ways to work around it if your wife would like you to last longer and it's different for everyone.
 
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I agree with Pink and Summerisle.
My wife and I rarely have sex without fore play.
Foreplay may last 5 minutes or may last 3 hours.
99.9% of the time She has numerous orgasms before I penetrate her.
I usually don't last more than 10 minutes once I penetrate her, but that gives her time to have several more before I finish. LOL
 

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My wife doesn't like orgasms as much without PIV. I'm not sure why (I mean, what is there not to like about an orgasm???). Anyway, she also doesn't like multiple orgasms (go figure!).

Depending on the time of the month, she likes foreplay. Otherwise, she just wants me to go for it hard and straight and in her words, "quit messing around" (especially when she is ovulating). I could last as long as she wanted me to last (usually -- unless it has been a long time), but she doesn't like long sex sessions with too much PIV. She like oral and direct stimulation on the "fun spot". If I'm going too long for her and it just isn't doing it for her "button", she will reach down and give it the pushes it needs (or have me do this) to climax. She always wants PIV during her orgasms, and loves it when it happens simultaneously.

Oddly, I sometimes want more foreplay and longer sessions (with more positions, etc.). But when she is "desirous", she just wants to get off quicker than all of that jazz!

I find it fascinating to hear what others like or do not like when it comes to sex.
 

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It's a variable all through my life. Anywhere from initial insertion to hour after hour. Very situational. After the cheating, it was difficult to even get up, but that's evolved and now we're back to MY specification that she always comes first. :)
 

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Just PIV? I top out at about an hour max, before things need to be changed up. Of course that hour would not be the same repetitive motion or position.

I am definitely in the minority, and its always been this way no matter the girl. When I first started having sex I always used condoms (don't with the wife) but because I hated condoms i could go all night and would only finish when I decided to. Without condoms I was 20 minutes max it seemed, but overtime I just trained myself.

I take my mind to another place to prevent from cuming too early.
 
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