I'm not sure if this is a good place to turn. I've done IC for myself, we've tried some MC - when wife decides it fits her schedule. We're both engineers, so sometimes imagination loses out to factual data. Getting ready to retire in a few years - and not sure if we'll be able to handle that much 'together without jobs to distract us' time. Not sure what to do - I really, really miss affection, spontaneity, doing things together, etc. I'm really wondering what I expect from this group if MC can't help us.