I'm new to the forums but was reading and found myself wanting to respond...often. I'm at a point in my life where I appreciate my marriage but often look for different ways to make it better. There are moments, days even, when I wonder if I'm happy. Then there are moments where I'm sure I'm happy. I have two children who are 13 and 18 and have been married 23 years to a man who is better than most. Not such an amazing description, right? I'm writing this on an off day. I'm looking for advice, thoughts, and growth.