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Trying new things

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Hello all,

I have been curious how people normally go about finding new things to try in the bedroom. Do you read articles about new sex things and want to try it out and research it? Or do you hear about things from friends, tv, etc? I know a lot of people probably get ideas generally from watching porn which is where a lot of my things I want to experience come from. Those of you who don't watch porn, where do you find new things to try? Do you ever seek out new things to try or is it just more when you come across something that piques your interest in your day to day life?
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We've done our reading, and we've had enough partners to know what we like, what we don't, and what limits we want to have in place. Sometimes we'll spontaneously come up with a variant, or read about one that still falls within our limits. For years we were swingers, and learned a lot of fun variations on things we already liked; new people often do old things in new (to us) ways. Some of the best new variations required an extra person, though, so those won't be achievable for most!
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