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Ok I worked my butt off today with laundry, floors, dishes, a 6 month old, a 4 year old, my online business, and my friend came over and helped with some chores, well my husband comes home and notices I have the Christmas Decorations out, and the tree up, well he goes to get a spoon and says "who done dishes" I said me and "sally" (name changed) both done them, he shows me a spoon that has WATER SPOTS ON IT... not food or anything like that just some water spots... starts fussing snd complaining and has the nerve to "mumble" Ill just do it myself next time... i was like WHAT??? he said Im just gonna have to do it myself then I get all deffensive and was like YOU NEVER APPRECIATE A D*** THING I DO!! I did dishes, laundry and took care of your kids today and you ALWAYS find something to complain about its NEVER good enough.... he then says I act like a 16 year old and need to quit complaining... i then yell I am your WIFE not your child.. treat me like it!!!!! now we arent speaking
what the heck... i feel as if he ALWAYS treats me like my parents did 10 years ago... now how do we fix this because we have talked a gazillion times and he hasnt changed at all.... tia!