[BeachGuy]

...has anyone ever had a sudden change of heart even though you felt spouse did you wrong.

Yes. I had moved out and as far as I was concerned it was over and done with. But something inside me made me try one last time. I put everything I had in to it. Ended up her asking me to come back home and I did.

Unfortunately SHE wasn't any different, only me. So I'm back to considering divorce. But if you think there is ANY chance of saving it, than it's worth it.

But don't expect your epiphany to cause him to have one. He has to come around on his own. It HAS to be a two-way street or it's just not ever going to work.