The ONLY person who you need to worry about in this lifetime is YOU.
Your kids will turn their marriage into the marriage they see growing up.
In, 30 years, do you want your kids to be miserable, trapped in marriages, laying awake at night the way you are now??
Go all in. You already know you can't go all in on your marriage. So, go all in for divorce.
I've been cheated on (and am still in the marriage) and it's a terrible terrible thing that never goes away. If I had it to do again, I'd have left immediately. But I choose to stay so I try to put my all, everything I can, into my marriage.
Your kids will turn their marriage into the marriage they see growing up.
In, 30 years, do you want your kids to be miserable, trapped in marriages, laying awake at night the way you are now??
Go all in. You already know you can't go all in on your marriage. So, go all in for divorce.
I've been cheated on (and am still in the marriage) and it's a terrible terrible thing that never goes away. If I had it to do again, I'd have left immediately. But I choose to stay so I try to put my all, everything I can, into my marriage.