Today we told the kids, ages 5 and 10, that we're getting divorced. They cried a good long time, and the 10 yo has been asking questions all day, like "will we be going on family vacations together" and "you won't get married again will you?". The 5 yo keeps asking why daddy has to move away. The hurt they both felt was the worst part of the whole ordeal so far. I feel that after this, everything else has got to be easier.