Why is it when I talk to or see my wife (who I am separated from and waiting to finalize divorce) make me crazy. I can't focus when she contacts me, oh and by the way she wants to "Be my friend". Why does she wield power over me, I lose control? I cannot seem to understand that, and she is the one that left. I go through so many emotions and I feel like I will never get through. Take for instance, this morning she calls me up and mind you I haven't talked or seen her in 10 days, I am never want to talk to her again, bu she received some of my mail and calls my work phone because I blocked her on my cell and wants me to come get the mail. I go down and get the mail and she says "Are you going to say HI?" I said "No, not really" and walked out. I wanted to say HI so badly though, I wanted to hear her speak and now I am left trying not to indulge her though. It has been 2 months and I feel as if I will never get rid of her. What should I do?