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A recent thread about signs missed got me wondering. My wife had a two year PA (13 month R so far). I'm curious about others who's spouse had a long term affair - 1 year or longer. Now that you look back.
1)What clear signs did you miss/ignore?
2)How did you catch them?
Mine:
1) - Facebooking and computer use early in the morning/late at night
- Frequent GNO
- Frequent and extended shopping trips on the weekend
2) - Saw texts on her cell phone - got trickle truth - removed head from arse, then recovered AP's deleted e-mails on her computer.
How stupid did I feel? Very. Funny how I trusted so completely and how things are now so different.
1)What clear signs did you miss/ignore?
2)How did you catch them?
Mine:
1) - Facebooking and computer use early in the morning/late at night
- Frequent GNO
- Frequent and extended shopping trips on the weekend
2) - Saw texts on her cell phone - got trickle truth - removed head from arse, then recovered AP's deleted e-mails on her computer.
How stupid did I feel? Very. Funny how I trusted so completely and how things are now so different.