Tell me that this David DeAngelo style of thinking has worked so well in your relationship.Read my thread: "do women want what they want". The above is the issue I ask about -- doing what she wants all the time is just gong to leave her unfulfilled. People do not value what comes easy to them. You have to make her work for it, not think she is owed it.
While some of your posts are helpful, so many more are insulting, or pushy. You want to lump everything into a file system. If it is so then feel free to write a thesis explaining your technique for solving all relationship problems since you find they are all the same all you will need to do is cut and past the pieces that apply.I don't have to know you from "Adam" if you actively present yourself the same as he does.
Then you sidestep facts which disprove your unfounded hypothesis in order to send a slipshod insult.
I'm trying to help this poster, feel free to do the same.