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Ok guys, I won't go into my whole story again.
I'm having a TERRIBLE time with my situation. Wife cheated, now says she doesn't love me, doesn't want me, wants a new life, etc. She's 27 almost 28 and cheated with a 19 yro. He's gone. really is gone. BUT< I can't shake her of her mood towards me.
She won't talk, at all about it. Says she doesn't miss me, and use to say she didn't feel remorse like she should and wants time.
Last night, she broke and it came out. She said in a crying ramble "I NEEDED TIME that you WOULDN'T GIVE me to fix me, I can't deal with what I"ve done"!
This was the first real sign of remorse. She was almost in tears when she said it and very, VERY emotional. I do believe this is the key.
Question is, what do you 'pros' think? She hadn't said I'm sorry, or really said she feels very bad at all, until now. This came out after I told her she changed and not to a better person, then she belted that out. Said I wouldn't give her time to figure herself out and become a better person. I didn't believe anything until that one line came out.
What do yall think? Is it possible she IS remorseful? As emotional as she was, I hadn't seen her like that in a looong time. She REFUSES to break... but she almost did last night. Thoughts?
I'm having a TERRIBLE time with my situation. Wife cheated, now says she doesn't love me, doesn't want me, wants a new life, etc. She's 27 almost 28 and cheated with a 19 yro. He's gone. really is gone. BUT< I can't shake her of her mood towards me.
She won't talk, at all about it. Says she doesn't miss me, and use to say she didn't feel remorse like she should and wants time.
Last night, she broke and it came out. She said in a crying ramble "I NEEDED TIME that you WOULDN'T GIVE me to fix me, I can't deal with what I"ve done"!
This was the first real sign of remorse. She was almost in tears when she said it and very, VERY emotional. I do believe this is the key.
Question is, what do you 'pros' think? She hadn't said I'm sorry, or really said she feels very bad at all, until now. This came out after I told her she changed and not to a better person, then she belted that out. Said I wouldn't give her time to figure herself out and become a better person. I didn't believe anything until that one line came out.
What do yall think? Is it possible she IS remorseful? As emotional as she was, I hadn't seen her like that in a looong time. She REFUSES to break... but she almost did last night. Thoughts?