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I’m confused...
My LW says that she really enjoys being ‘tied up’ and she defines this specifically as using some sort of soft restraint that would be attached to the bedposts and then to her wrists. She also admits that there were only two people in her past that she ever trusted enough to do this.
Okay, I get that part.
The part I don’t get: is the fuzzy handcuffs? She has/had two pair. One was a real set of handcuffs outfitted with padded velvet slip on covers, and the other set were more like a pair of sports wristbands with a short chain.
It’s been brought to my attention that she used the ‘cuffs’ with way more than just ‘only two people’ in her past.
I was upset when I first understood this, and felt as if she’d lied to me - but I’m doing my best to give her every benefit of doubt. So, is it possible? - that she is making a very real and clear ‘mental distinction’ between wrists being bound behind her back in cuffs, and wrists being bound by neckties to the bed?
Is this a reasonable distinction for a woman to make when it comes to "being bound"?
(and if it is?: why is it so?)
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My LW says that she really enjoys being ‘tied up’ and she defines this specifically as using some sort of soft restraint that would be attached to the bedposts and then to her wrists. She also admits that there were only two people in her past that she ever trusted enough to do this.
Okay, I get that part.
The part I don’t get: is the fuzzy handcuffs? She has/had two pair. One was a real set of handcuffs outfitted with padded velvet slip on covers, and the other set were more like a pair of sports wristbands with a short chain.
It’s been brought to my attention that she used the ‘cuffs’ with way more than just ‘only two people’ in her past.
I was upset when I first understood this, and felt as if she’d lied to me - but I’m doing my best to give her every benefit of doubt. So, is it possible? - that she is making a very real and clear ‘mental distinction’ between wrists being bound behind her back in cuffs, and wrists being bound by neckties to the bed?
Is this a reasonable distinction for a woman to make when it comes to "being bound"?
(and if it is?: why is it so?)
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