Hello and thank you for looking over this. I would greatly appreciate it if you replied because I am in desperate help and I know there are users out there who know way more about relationships than I. So here it goes...
The details aren't needed, but a week ago, today, I messed up my entire relationship with my partner. Before, we were happy 24/7 with each other, and our lives were amazing. Then on Wednesday, I we got into a huge fight. I yelled and she yelled. The next morning we went at it again. From then on, it's been back and forth, and it has only gotten pregressively worse. Today, I convinced her to give us three days of seperation to cool off...right before we split up. She told me it was bound to happen, but somehow I sparked something in her that got her to give me three days. The next three days we will not talk to each other, spend time with each other, not argue with each other, and live our individual lives from each other. After the three days, we will talk and see how she feels. Then, we break up or fix it.
All I'm asking for is some help. I don't want us to split up because I love her with everything in my heart. I have devoted my life to her, and I feel like she has thrown it away. If anyone knows what I should do at three days to make it better or even elongate it, please reply.
Thanks for just reading and I hope you can help,
~Live...because I wanna live happy with the love of my life.
Extra: This is sometimes called trial seperation.
The details aren't needed, but a week ago, today, I messed up my entire relationship with my partner. Before, we were happy 24/7 with each other, and our lives were amazing. Then on Wednesday, I we got into a huge fight. I yelled and she yelled. The next morning we went at it again. From then on, it's been back and forth, and it has only gotten pregressively worse. Today, I convinced her to give us three days of seperation to cool off...right before we split up. She told me it was bound to happen, but somehow I sparked something in her that got her to give me three days. The next three days we will not talk to each other, spend time with each other, not argue with each other, and live our individual lives from each other. After the three days, we will talk and see how she feels. Then, we break up or fix it.
Here are my problems...
1. I am controlling (I like to know what she is doing and stuff like that)
2. I have trust issues (I can't stand seeing other guys flirting with her.)
3. I argue when I get mad (I never drop anything until it gets solved.)
4. The most important one, I am clingy. (I like to be around her too much, I like to be with her when she is with her friends, I text her whenever I'm not with her, etc.)
Those are the problems my partner has with me. I have apologized repeatively for them and have promised to change.
My partners problems...
1. She will not forgive me.
2. She thinks I will never change.
3. She has had bad guys in the past that have hurt her.
4. She has trouble facing problems.
5. She never speaks her mind.
6. She is very stuborn.
7. The most important, she thinks I'll never make her happy again.
1. I am controlling (I like to know what she is doing and stuff like that)
2. I have trust issues (I can't stand seeing other guys flirting with her.)
3. I argue when I get mad (I never drop anything until it gets solved.)
4. The most important one, I am clingy. (I like to be around her too much, I like to be with her when she is with her friends, I text her whenever I'm not with her, etc.)
Those are the problems my partner has with me. I have apologized repeatively for them and have promised to change.
My partners problems...
1. She will not forgive me.
2. She thinks I will never change.
3. She has had bad guys in the past that have hurt her.
4. She has trouble facing problems.
5. She never speaks her mind.
6. She is very stuborn.
7. The most important, she thinks I'll never make her happy again.
All I'm asking for is some help. I don't want us to split up because I love her with everything in my heart. I have devoted my life to her, and I feel like she has thrown it away. If anyone knows what I should do at three days to make it better or even elongate it, please reply.
Thanks for just reading and I hope you can help,
~Live...because I wanna live happy with the love of my life.
Extra: This is sometimes called trial seperation.