No problem!Thanks for providing your opinion.
It seems to me, in my own experience, that "dating" is much much more work, time, (and expense) than being in a stable relationship. I could spend 40 minutes every day just "managing" OK cupid. And then the time of setting up and having "dates" with a string of strangers, are you telling me they are doing that not in the hope of finding someone, but just for entertainment? When they are short of time and energy? That they are not looking to make an emotional commitment, but just to spend evenings with strangers? I find it hard to believe.IME, single people over 40s, more men than women, are not looking committed relationships. They have responsibilities to their kids, their parents, their jobs, ect.. and are not interested in adding the responsibility of an emotional investment with someone with their own baggage.
So what do they get out of it, if it's not someone who they know well enough to get emotional contact from? Is it really just the actual sex? I mean, most people can do better with some porn and a vibrator if it's just the orgasm.