Hi Fellas,
I really need a guys perspective on this because it's puzzling me and really starting to bother me. Well first off let me say my husband is a very busy man basically has two full time jobs. Anyway this is about sex. Well he used to be a whenever wherever kind of guy. We both I believed had high drives. So he isn't a husband that could complain for lack of sex. Well he has turned into a mainly morning guy before work which gives us maybe 10 minutes.
When we go to bed I can be clothed or not and he just falls asleep, he's become to tired to be with me. Like last night for instance I said something about going to bed and he commented who said we were going to sleep, well he gets in the bedroom and boom sleeping.
But yet he will turn around and make comments like I'm withholding or he will go about me not wanting to kiss or touch on him and I told him when I do you act all skiddish, he said well maybe I do well wth does he want?
We are in our 30's but it makes me feel old and undesired. I lay in bed at night with my husband of a little over a year who used not he able to keep his hands off me and he would tell me sleep can wait. I just miss the connection and the way he used to be with me. Am I making to big of a deal out of this, maybe being to sensitive? Give me your thoughts. Thanks ahead of time guys!!
I really need a guys perspective on this because it's puzzling me and really starting to bother me. Well first off let me say my husband is a very busy man basically has two full time jobs. Anyway this is about sex. Well he used to be a whenever wherever kind of guy. We both I believed had high drives. So he isn't a husband that could complain for lack of sex. Well he has turned into a mainly morning guy before work which gives us maybe 10 minutes.
When we go to bed I can be clothed or not and he just falls asleep, he's become to tired to be with me. Like last night for instance I said something about going to bed and he commented who said we were going to sleep, well he gets in the bedroom and boom sleeping.
But yet he will turn around and make comments like I'm withholding or he will go about me not wanting to kiss or touch on him and I told him when I do you act all skiddish, he said well maybe I do well wth does he want?
We are in our 30's but it makes me feel old and undesired. I lay in bed at night with my husband of a little over a year who used not he able to keep his hands off me and he would tell me sleep can wait. I just miss the connection and the way he used to be with me. Am I making to big of a deal out of this, maybe being to sensitive? Give me your thoughts. Thanks ahead of time guys!!