Are you sure I didn't post this one?Ohforanewme on SI. Took him a year of hell to decide, but once he decided, he was fantastic. This thread starts after he decided to end it.
https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=606741
This one doesn't go anywhere.TimeIsOnMySide here on TAM, right up there with SpaceGhost007!!
Wife was sleeping around when he would go away for work. He blows up her world
https://talkaboutmarriage.com/#/topics/354185
Takes me to the TAM homepage.Can you try the link again? Thanks. When I clicked it, it worked
I read that one. Just his posts because it was long and some of those folks are just silly.Ohforanewme on SI. Took him a year of hell to decide, but once he decided, he was fantastic. This thread starts after he decided to end it.
https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=606741
He has late stage cancer now by the way and is on his second chemo. He thought the physical pain he was feeling was psychosomatic to the emotional pain she was causing him so he never got it checked out. Now he has a late stage cancer. So you can add passive murder to the list of her crimes at least in my mind. I wonder if she even knows or if she even gets it. Probably not.I read that one. Just his posts because it was long and some of those folks are just silly.
You know, what strikes me about that one was the severity of what she had done. Not one, not two but 3 affairs, one in which she got a STD and never told him.
Then, when she knew it was over, she was sorry about everything in HER life that SHE had screwed up.
And she still love bombed him. I mean, she thought that the one year R was all she needed to do, she never even thought that she would lose her family and husband.
And I still to this day, she does not get it...
It is almost unimaginable.
His thread again proves that swift decisive action can prevent years of pain and agony.
That thread was something to read...
What does the last line mean?He has late stage cancer now by the way and is on his second chemo. He thought the physical pain he was feeling was psychosomatic to the emotional pain she was causing him so he never got it checked out. Now he has a late stage cancer. So you can add passive murder to the list of her crimes at least in my mind. I wonder if she even knows or if she even gets it. Probably not.
Also it may indirectly make his decision to stay a terminal one.
He posts frequently in the divorced board. He is on his second round of chemo but the last one didn't take, and even then when he announced he had cancer at first it wasn't (I have cancer but my doctors are hopeful) kind of post it was (despite what my doctors say I will make it) type of posts. Maybe I am reading too much into it but every post on the board feels like it might be his last.What does the last line mean?
And, where are his other threads. Is the cancer terminal or do they not know.
That sucks... All that money, all that work, all that pain, get out of it and start new and end up with cancer.
That is the reason that I am sometimes leery of being happy, I figure I will get cancer.
I feel like I have read this before though. I have my suspicions on this one. But it doesn't mean the information isn't good.https://www.reddit.com/r/survivingi...date_im_sitting_out_in_front_of_aps_house_to/
OP in this case tried reconciliation, until he caught her again. Swift and decisive.
There are a couple of postings that are tied together.
WOW that was like being in a room listening to an invasion being planned.Worthy nominee: On SI, LtCdtLost, in the just Found Out forum!
He was deployed overseas when a friend emailed him proof that wife was screwing around. He came back without her knowing and blew up her world.
https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=620583&HL=63398
Don’t bother reading last few pages, the responders get crazy
One of our good posters here pointed out some discrepancies in his army knowledge so I left him off the list.WOW that was like being in a room listening to an invasion being planned.