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Hi all,
To understand the following post I'll give some background.
I am 31 , W 30, married for almost 4 years and a kid of almost 3 years.
My wife never had a lot of sexual desire, rather almost has no desire, because of the cultural background where she was told from Childhood that Sex is something which a Girl should never do, and she strongly believes that if she has to do it then has to do it only for the husband, and should take minimum part in the sex.
I don't want to go in a long detail, but in short, she doesn't like to have sex but for me sex is very very very important.
Sometimes she gives me a so called HJ, but she always keeps lying down in the bed on my side with her eyes closed and one arm on her eyes, and the other hand stretched to my d*ck and rub it, mostly my d*ick being inside the underwear. I have always asked her to take more interest, atleast sit up so that I can feel she is involved in it rather than just giving me a feeling that she hates it and just wants to get over with it.
I always hatted it but come on, mostly thats the BEST sex I can get so I always took it, but yesterday, there was something new.
I gave her an orgasm with my hand (I am ready to give oral but she won't take it) and then she was trying to give me one with her hand in upmentioned style. I once again asked her to sit up and show some interest but she simply said, no I can't do that. But suddenly while she was rubbing me I completely LOST my seduction. I rather started hating her touching me. and just asked her to take her hand away and I just didn't even want to look at her or talk to her.
This was totally new to me. Can anybody help, what the hell is happening to me???
P.S. I have talked to my wife about our unhealthy and boring sex life, and me not being satisfied. The problem is yet to be resolved.
To understand the following post I'll give some background.
I am 31 , W 30, married for almost 4 years and a kid of almost 3 years.
My wife never had a lot of sexual desire, rather almost has no desire, because of the cultural background where she was told from Childhood that Sex is something which a Girl should never do, and she strongly believes that if she has to do it then has to do it only for the husband, and should take minimum part in the sex.
I don't want to go in a long detail, but in short, she doesn't like to have sex but for me sex is very very very important.
Sometimes she gives me a so called HJ, but she always keeps lying down in the bed on my side with her eyes closed and one arm on her eyes, and the other hand stretched to my d*ck and rub it, mostly my d*ick being inside the underwear. I have always asked her to take more interest, atleast sit up so that I can feel she is involved in it rather than just giving me a feeling that she hates it and just wants to get over with it.
I always hatted it but come on, mostly thats the BEST sex I can get so I always took it, but yesterday, there was something new.
I gave her an orgasm with my hand (I am ready to give oral but she won't take it) and then she was trying to give me one with her hand in upmentioned style. I once again asked her to sit up and show some interest but she simply said, no I can't do that. But suddenly while she was rubbing me I completely LOST my seduction. I rather started hating her touching me. and just asked her to take her hand away and I just didn't even want to look at her or talk to her.
This was totally new to me. Can anybody help, what the hell is happening to me???
P.S. I have talked to my wife about our unhealthy and boring sex life, and me not being satisfied. The problem is yet to be resolved.