This is good; and reinforces my belief that when my husband leaves next year to work up North, it'll be good for us. I need to miss him. And vice versa!
I keep that stuff tucked away to myself......way down deep in the brain.Now see?
All can be well in the world due to a smile from your child and an "I miss you." from the one you love.
Not as glamorous as a threesome thread, I'll grant you, but your post is absolutely perfect.![]()
Funny how couples are so different....Me & mine has never enjoyed time apart...sure we could endure it but oh how we missed each other, my husband even complains he can't sleep if I am not home.... .....I think the longest we've been separated in 23 yrs is a week -when he had Work training in another state. Glorious when he hits the door though!Holland said: Where I live the fastest growing section of the community are those in committed, monogamous relationships where the couple do not live together.
I am in one of these and am very happy. I need time apart, he does too. When we are together we use our time well, it is extremely bonding.
Totally agree with you SA, on this one. The night hours are never good if we are not together. I did some research fellowships in the past to St. Louis and San Antonio... and while I enjoyed those places when not stuck in the lab or meetings. Trying to sleep alone in an hotel room was very hard. Always had to call to talk so I could feel relaxed enough to sleep.Funny how couples are so different....Me & mine has never enjoyed time apart...sure we could endure it but oh how we missed each other, my husband even complains he can't sleep if I am not home....
SA we are both out of LTR that ended in divorce, we each have children and busy lives. It is different second time round for me, I think in my marriage I should have had more time away from my ex, I am the sort of person that needs time alone.Funny how couples are so different....Me & mine has never enjoyed time apart...sure we could endure it but oh how we missed each other, my husband even complains he can't sleep if I am not home.... .....I think the longest we've been separated in 23 yrs is a week -when he had Work training in another state. Glorious when he hits the door though!
We enjoy tripping over each other every day... it is very comforting..and bonding......Neither of us would ever say... we needed a break & it was good for us .
Even when we fight, we can't leave each other alone... and we like it that way!! He gets the biggest charge out of me, cause I might get really MAD/ steaming and slam the door in a huff, trying to stay away from him... but I can't do it... I might last an hour if I am lucky....& I end up crawling back to him - telling him how pathetic I am that I can't stay away. He always cracks and big& we make up.
I guess some might call us the "clingy" type - though we don't see it as unhealthy.... just living as we enjoy.