My H left a month ago and said he'd continue to pay our bills and such but I m totally broke right now and although he has transferred some money through, it's not been anywhere near enough. I now have people calling me and things are getting a bit desperate. I've done car boots and sold stuff on eBay but it's all peanuts really. I've cut back completely. I have an oil tank and cant afford to fill it right now so I have no heating. I'm driving but only when I have to which kind of scuppers getting out and about to socialise. I've just rung him, he didn't answer of course. Left a message and am not sure if he will even listen to it. I am looking for a job but it's hard when you haven't worked for years. H always insisted I don't work because he earned good money. Plus I have a medical condition which causes me to have low energy and I get tired more easily than normal people and couldn't work full time. Well now m going to have to do it and looks like the only jobs for someone like me is care home work and I really don't know if I could do it as it can be quite physical.