I have came to the conclusion i cant get over my W A 5 years ago. At the time i was hell bent on saving our marriage. everything in my life is about family, i do everything for my family and her family. I come from good family we where taught family was life blood of everything. one big reason i have not left is i cant stand the fact i am going to have to tell my parents my marriage has failed. the sad part is my wife had a affair with a man who only wanted sex with as many women he could find. i think i could save my marriage but she want talk about it, she has no remorse for what she has done, i am tired of begging for sex and she is the most emotionless person on earth. i have alot to offer someone who wants a good man if i can ever trust again. i just got to man up, tell my family and friend we are done. this is going to be huge suprise to everyone who knows us. any advice on doing this would be great.