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I've made clear to my wife that if she leaves with the OM, she and I will not remain in contact (she objects to this and wants to remain friends, is very upset about it). She plans to move with him on Thursday, and tonight we're dividing the stuff. No kids, no major assets. So unless some emergency comes up in the next few days, tonight is the last time I'll see my wife. I'd like it to be cordial, not angry or too lovey-dovey (though it will be tough to not swing to extremes). Not looking for miracle solutions because I know they don't exist, just want to hear some stories of how people have handled this situation before.