Strictly NC since my now EWW moved out after having an affair with her boss late last fall that she still denies. She knows that I know the truth but denies to all that are not privy to the proof I hold. She told me she "wasn't in love with me anymore" upon her departure. NC has been a huge part of my recovery. Since we had no children, finances or anything else together there was no reason for us to communicate. Suddenly, out of the blue I get an email from an account I thought I had blocked her on. Came at 12:07 am, about the time she would get home after finishing at the restaurant she works. The email contained one word. "Hi". Really?, Hi. 3 - 4 months ago this would have sent my anxiety level through the roof. Even though I promised my self early on I would never consider taking her back I had lied to myself and wanted her to contact me. I was pleasantly surprised to find that about the only emotion I felt when I received this email was of disdain. Still more consideration than she deserved. My response, of course, was nothing. Delete and block. WTF was she thinking. Ok, the ankle is in my head. Damn her. LOL.