I would think that if I heard that I would be irate no matter how much I loved her - after stringing you along like that. I'd be out the sore faster than you could blink!So wife of 19+ years today tells me that she is not attracted to me, that she is not attracted to anyone at all but especially me. She is my best friend and the love of my life. Sex has been sporadic like rain in a desert all these years. Occasional rain storms but mainly long droughts. Now this. I am beyond crushed. What should I do? This has been a problem since before marriage but I have always told myself maybe tomorrow she will love me and want me. Now I know it will never happen. And with three kids, if I choose to leave I will not even be able to afford a cardboard box under the off ramp along the highway?
Do I stay in a marriage with a woman who claims she loves me but has no desire to ever again have sex... Or do I step in front of the next city bus?
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