Hi All - I expect a lot of the same responses from my other post about my Separation/Divorce situation - I have finally grew a backbone, cut all communication ties with her and just want a little more advice. Just to update since my last post a few months ago - my wife and I tried to reconcile and put a little effort in however, it eventually fell off. We have not physically seen each other since pre July 4th as we have both been back and fourth between the beach and vacations. She officially moved back into her parents however, she has lingered around the home (pre July 4th) . Around the end of June she came over and freaked out that I rearranged things in the house (to my liking, example toaster on the counter and moved a plant off the counter for it). She screamed that she put so much effort into the home decor and I am running it - I told her she doesn't even live here anymore, and her response it doesn't matter until papers are signed its still her home.. A few weeks ago she stayed her to feed her cats while I was at the beach for a weekend - she went through all of my stuff in my office, and sent me photos of things she didn't like (like a pair of underwear I bought a year ago to spice things up that I forgot I even had). Additionally she sent me a photo of a marriage certificate copy I ordered from the state since ours was never officially stamped (I did this as pre-prep for the possibility of divorce since she still talks to that guy from my previous posts). I was pissed she went through all my stuff, including my closets and sent me photos of stuff. After she did this- I just told her the truth and really started to pull away as I have no time for this back and fourth (the truth is I ordered as pre-prep since we didn't have a stamped one - our original copy was never sealed). Then this week, I went on vacation so she said she wanted to stay to watch the cats again, I just got home today and I noticed she rearranged all the stuff in the house back to her liking, did extensive cleaning (house was clean) and even moved our coffee station (why?) - but the one thing I noticed was she took our original marriage certificates, her social security cards and birth certificate out of our safe. This annoyed me as I no longer want her in the house, as I don't know what else she took. lastly, while I was gone she had her mom over here for a few hours for breakfast the one day and even let her little sister and her boyfriend hang out here for a few hours when no-one was home 'to see the cats' - she never told me they were coming and all of my stuff is in this house! I have not talked to anyone in her family for like over a month, so this came across as odd to me. Has anyone been in this situation before? Every time I tell her about something with the house, she throws it is her house to - so when I tell her I no longer want her here even when I am away she is going to start a war about it being her house to. SHE CHOSE TO MOVE BACK TO HER PARENTS HOUSE and leave the house. I don't want to change the locks, but how do I tell her she can't come here anymore? Am I even allowed to do that?