If you had acted like you enjoy your work but not bothered with money and she doesn't a financially irresponsible man , you can't blame her for not warming up to you. She may not be a gold digger but who just want a financially responsible man.Glad that you appreciate that quality in a man TooNice. It's frustrating to find someone like you in my city. Reminds me of this lady I added as a friend on FB, we got along fine but me not being financially motivated was a dealbreaker for her, even though I made it clear I enjoy what I do, but after adding me on facebook and finding out I'm owner/MD of my own hospitality chain she wanted to date again... NO THANKS!
After my own experience, a man who is financially not stable or responsible is a deal breaker. And I am no gold digger.
I suppose you can tell the difference.