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Sure, but I lacked the confidence in childhood, and two girls I actually DID like. Example, my first infactuation, prior to my first gf, oh hell! I was so "in love" with her, and whenever she was in a room I was in a daze haha! I didn't have a clue of what to say to her, even hello! And the closer I got to her physically - the more intense my heart was beating! I was in love with her for a year and didn't say ONE word to her. Oh, another time, it was just puppy love but instead of asking her out, I did "recon" and found out she liked two things, so I got her those two things combined, not going to say what it is btw , and then she liked me straight away but THEN guess what I did?!Heart breaker
You could have them all . lol
... I ignored her, and avoided her! :slap:
... regretted ever since, both those times, and along with saying those stupid things even earlier in my childhood with the other girls. But I guess I didn't regret it enough because I still made stupid decisions like that lady I pitched to when I was young and doing sales. Hell she was a perfect 10, face, hair, body... the hell was wrong with me? >.< So yeah, I advice people to get out of their comfort zones, to grab opportunities knowing that it wont knock twice, and saying this as a man with many regrets in my youth. Sometimes you may need a break to heal sure, but its worth working on.
Confidence is important not just in relationships but in work as well, I sure as hell wouldn't be able to do what I do today if I didn't get a kick up the butt in late 10s / early20s.