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So, as some of you know, I'm new to dating after spending the last 12 years with my wife (married for 8). I'm $7k into attorneys but being officially divorced is months away. Going without sex for the past 4 years and horrible sex the other 6, I moved on long ago and was ready to date immediately. I now have been dating a girl for 4 weeks and we are very much into each other.
Anyways, we send each other selfies a lot, since we only see each other 2-3 times a week. I gotta say, this selfie thing is AWESOME! When you randomly get a sexy selfie from a bathroom stall, it just makes your day and makes you want her more! Ha. Just had to share. Ladies, send your man some sexy selfies every once in a while! And yes, I send her some of me too.
Anyways, we send each other selfies a lot, since we only see each other 2-3 times a week. I gotta say, this selfie thing is AWESOME! When you randomly get a sexy selfie from a bathroom stall, it just makes your day and makes you want her more! Ha. Just had to share. Ladies, send your man some sexy selfies every once in a while! And yes, I send her some of me too.
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One in her in bra/panties blowdrying her hair in the morning turns me on! Lately she's been sending ones sitting on the toilet with her panties down to the knees and giving a seductive look, maybe letting the boobies show more. Sends them from work. She doesn't expose anything but it's sexy as hell.
Click here to see one... I'm removing link in 20 minutes! http://i1249.photobucket.com/albums/hh507/pokermunkee/524_zpskazuurpv.jpg]
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You don't see the toilet... or if you do, it's just a little bit. Not all women can pull it off perhaps. Oh well, I like it! When we go on dates, we'll send them when we go to the bathroom, just stupid fun stuff.
http://i1249.photobucket.com/albums/hh507/pokermunkee/524_zpskazuurpv.jpg
http://i1249.photobucket.com/albums/hh507/pokermunkee/524_zpskazuurpv.jpg
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Ha, I looked like once. I'm taking it slow. Really slow. Her mom has a huge house and her dad died, so she moved in with mom after divorcing in California and been there since. Works with severe special needs kids at a high school for past 6 years, so isn't a deadbeat. Her mom who doesn't work can help out with her kids, so it just works for her.
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Truth! Especially in a miserable marriage... we spent money like crazy trying to be happy. Eventually you run out of money or things to buy!
I'm now content driving an older car that is paid off. Driving new cars took it's toll after so many years. Jeez, I was dumb when I was younger. I want to have a nice house that I can afford, that will be my only debt.
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Got a date with my girl tomorrow night. She wants to do karaoke. I want to do darts/pool. We'll see who wins. Then I get to see her Saturday night. She's taking me to a two table poker game at a friend's house that starts at 5p. After that breaks, we are going bowling with her friend/husband. Woot!
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Met the G/F's mom last night! (Been dating her for almost 4 weeks now). Had a blast... gambled until 3am in the morning at a casino..laughing, drinking, and winning!
Had to ask her if I was her daughter's favorite boyfriend in the 10 minutes she's known me and got a HELL YES.
Picking the girl up in 3hrs for a poker game and some bowling with friends.
Oh, soon to be ex called last night making sure I still wanted a divorce and that she is praying for me and us...needs another $3K for attorney. WTF... move on, find someone else please!!
Had to ask her if I was her daughter's favorite boyfriend in the 10 minutes she's known me and got a HELL YES.
Picking the girl up in 3hrs for a poker game and some bowling with friends.
Oh, soon to be ex called last night making sure I still wanted a divorce and that she is praying for me and us...needs another $3K for attorney. WTF... move on, find someone else please!!
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The GF called in sick yesterday and we hung out from 9a-5p. We're both falling head over heels in love with each other I'm pretty sure. It will be interesting where we are in a year from now.
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Need some advice...
Been seperated since January 5th. Starting dating an amazing woman February 1st. It's getting serious. I haven't told my soon to be ex wife as I want to keep everything amicable and smooth until we are divorced. I hung out with some mutual friends last night and she showed up for dinner. I stayed for dinner. My new girlfriend got hurt that I hung out with the ex until 10pm. I also had dinner with the ex the other night after a mandatory parenting class. I have absolutely no feelings towards my wife and just want a friendly divorce because we have small kids. The new girlfriend will wait for me but feels like she's my dirty secret and she wants all of me. I get it now and need to set some boundaries. She doesn't like me hanging out with her so much, and I don't blame her now looking back. I got a text the from ex this morning saying she was glad we all hung out and had a good time.
So my question... should I just tell my soon to be ex wife that I have moved on and am dating an amazing woman and haven't been this happy in forever? I think the ex just needs to move on and accept the fact that there is no hope for reconciliation. Note that Colorado is a no fault state, so it won't impact my pending divorce. I obviously am not going to move in with the girlfriend or even introduce the kids to her until I'm officially divorced, which is a few months away.
Yeah, this is my fault for dating so soon. But I'm not sorry, this new girl is seriously the best relationship I've had and I don't want to loser her. When you've been in a meaningless marriage for the past 6 years, you move on long ago and just earn to connect with someone emotionally and intimately.
Been seperated since January 5th. Starting dating an amazing woman February 1st. It's getting serious. I haven't told my soon to be ex wife as I want to keep everything amicable and smooth until we are divorced. I hung out with some mutual friends last night and she showed up for dinner. I stayed for dinner. My new girlfriend got hurt that I hung out with the ex until 10pm. I also had dinner with the ex the other night after a mandatory parenting class. I have absolutely no feelings towards my wife and just want a friendly divorce because we have small kids. The new girlfriend will wait for me but feels like she's my dirty secret and she wants all of me. I get it now and need to set some boundaries. She doesn't like me hanging out with her so much, and I don't blame her now looking back. I got a text the from ex this morning saying she was glad we all hung out and had a good time.
So my question... should I just tell my soon to be ex wife that I have moved on and am dating an amazing woman and haven't been this happy in forever? I think the ex just needs to move on and accept the fact that there is no hope for reconciliation. Note that Colorado is a no fault state, so it won't impact my pending divorce. I obviously am not going to move in with the girlfriend or even introduce the kids to her until I'm officially divorced, which is a few months away.
Yeah, this is my fault for dating so soon. But I'm not sorry, this new girl is seriously the best relationship I've had and I don't want to loser her. When you've been in a meaningless marriage for the past 6 years, you move on long ago and just earn to connect with someone emotionally and intimately.
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Oh, it was loveless and sexless. No sex for past 4.5 years. Maybe sex 10 times total in 8 years of marriage. Total sham. Had kids by some mircacle and got trapped. She has hope of reconcilation, probably because the reality of her losing me set in. She'll have to work full time, put kids in daycare, and lose a lot of disposable income. Plus, she knows she'll never find someone as good looking as me. Just the facts. She treated me like sh&t, telling me she fcking hated me and wanted a divorce for years. I finally realized the house, money, cars, and conveinance wasn't worth living a miserable life and walked out. Now she's the nicest person ever, says therapy these last 5 months has changed her, blah blah. I moved on!
I moved on years ago. It's why I really am not ashamed to tell my ex and my mom. In my mind, I deserve to find someone that rocks my world. They say you know when you met that special person, and I now know what that feels like. We haven't even had sex, gone pretty far but trying to keep it out of the equation for as long as possible. I'm sure it will happen in the next week or so with how we are talking. I dated one other girl right after the seperation for a few weeks. I have no desire to date any other women, I know I found what I've been desiring and missing out on.
I moved on years ago. It's why I really am not ashamed to tell my ex and my mom. In my mind, I deserve to find someone that rocks my world. They say you know when you met that special person, and I now know what that feels like. We haven't even had sex, gone pretty far but trying to keep it out of the equation for as long as possible. I'm sure it will happen in the next week or so with how we are talking. I dated one other girl right after the seperation for a few weeks. I have no desire to date any other women, I know I found what I've been desiring and missing out on.
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Thanks, that's great advice.
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Well, finally had sex with the GF last night. Hot passionate sex in passenger seat of my truck! We were talking it up all night while shooting pool/darts, so it wasn't just a random thing. Giggity!
Life is good.
Life is good.
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Ha, I did. Probably won't last long though, she has a IUD... I even verified, could feel the string. Ha. I'll probably get snipped after I'm divorced, no more kids for me. We're both almost 35 with each a boy and girl, all set.
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Find a nice local dive bar with darts and pool. I've never had a bad time and the night almost always ends on a good note.
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I've had sex 4 times in the last 8 days. I love this girl! Met her kids and brother the other day. Going to church with them on Easter and brunch afterwards. Her mom loves me. Can't believe we've only been dating for almost 2 months, seems like it's been 6+ months. It's awesome.
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Are you making out like high schoolers? That's when we'd talk it up, such as "I want you so bad, right now!", "Let's go back to your place", "You're turning me on" as she feels it, etc. Then the sex just comes after both can't take it anymore.
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RD...go to a good strip club... that always gives me temporary happiness! Just bring a $100 and no CC's...
Just bring a $100 and no CC's...
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Ha.. seems weird to me. But I won't judge
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