@joannacroc Now you are in Italy!My sympathies for what happened with your wife. Can certainly understand why you want to divorce.
However....be VERY wary of someone who wants to get serious with a still married man, within a few hours of meeting them. That is not someone who shows good moral character or judgment.
YOU are also not in a good place to make rational decisions about a romantic life right now. You are still reeling from trauma of finding out your wife is cheating and not yet separated. Please don't complicate your life by allowing your wife to paint you as the cheater and take all your money and your child's respect. Would recommend you try IC
It helped me a lot after I separated from my XH and during the divorce. You need to process what you are going through and close the book on the marriage, heal fully THEN look at dating or you may find yourself with the same type of woman as your current wife.