Yesterday a girlfriend of mine sent me pictures of my exhusband with a new girlfriend. He and I have been divorced 5 years. These were social media pictures where he gave her flowers and she captioned that some guys are so sweet, they were on the plane together in one picture and doing a flight of beer for tasting in another pic. Seeing him did not phase me. He has lost weight so obviously he is feeling better about himself. I do wish him happiness and hope he truly is in love. Seeing the pictures brought back so many memories though, it was incredible, something I was not anticipating. The hurt, the betrayal, the good times, and I started questioning myself as to whether I tried hard enough. This man just was not available to me and the kids in so many ways. It was like he wanted to live the bachelor life inside the marriage but he was not loving. Sure I got flowers, got jewelry too but that was just it.....gifts but no emotional support, he did not try to spend time with us. He was too busy chasing other women and caught up majorly in porn, heavy drinker. I stayed until the last child was ready to go to college and then it was my time to go. I felt sorry for the naive woman he is with thinking those flowers were sweet. This man doesn't know how to treat a woman.