Most in-person interaction is fleeting unless one/both of you is super confident or in the mood to be flirty with someone on the spot if you see someone you find interesting. Honestly, I don't find a man attractive enough to hold my interest without good conversation, then my interest: > over time. I don't like mouthy, overflattering men, it makes me instantly retreat for the hills, so I don't do well with one on one flirting. I prefer to know a little bit about a man before assessing him for a potential relationship. Most men do NOT handle rejection well, I've had some horrible in-person experiences I do not ever care to repeat.I am not asking this to be disrespectful in any way but.....For the people who are using OLD. is meeting people in everyday situations that rare where you are from?