BullSh!tEverything I wrote is taken straight from everything I've read over the last couple of years on this forum. Over and over again, men have written that they don't care about the relationship unless she's keeping up with him sexually. They're willing to throw away an entire family because sex is their number one priority.
Feeling loved and cared for by your spouse is priority.
When your LL is physical touch and a spouse couldn't give 2 sh!ts because they just aint feeling it. Tells you where you are on the list of importance.
Same as if your LL is quality time and your spouse does not want to spend time with you. Works all the time, plays stupid video games, always going out with friends to do things w/o you. Kind of tells their spouse how not important they are to them.
A spouse wanting to divorce due to rightly feeling abandoned emotionally could be told same thing. "You willing to throw away an entire family because controlling your spouse is your number one priority!"