Hey there, This forum and the threads have given me such a great insight into myself and my husband and everything that has gone on. I have one question... Any ideas on how to get someone out of "The Fog"? I think my situation is exascerbated by the fact that I had a PA after several of his EA's. I think the current EA or EA's are being justified by my PA 2.5 years ago. His wounds are once again raw and then there is "The Fog". As I said in previous posts I was so fed up a few weeks ago that I agreed that divorce was the best option. In hindsight I could not feel more different. Any guidelines would help!