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Okay is anyone going through this? or for a while now??
its insult to injury.... he cheated on me (42) with a 20yo. I found out he had another affair in 2008. Both of these are apparently my fault - the reason he wants a divorce is apparently my fault.
We decided to stay living in the same house through the holidays for both the kids and financial reasons. He is constantly chatting his latest and greatest. meanwhile he is "comforting" me telling me time will heal what im going through, and i'll find someone else - they wont be as good, in bed and in attentiveness of course but there will someone. I guess im the moron that thinks faithfulness would be important in being a good husband - but ...oh yeah... thats my fault he had to do that!! in the meantime he is giving me the list of what he is looking for because hes not "going to be alone long, hes an excellent husband, attractive and a good catch" why is he not going to marry the 20 yo you ask - oh! cause she gave him hepatitis!!
But he wants to be my friend and wants good things for me. 0 but thats because im going to fail, and hes going to move on and have an amazing life.ut he wants to help me *read: i'm going to rub my new life in your face evry chance i get because im a narcissist*
thanks for letting me vent - if you read this far... well... sorry...
its insult to injury.... he cheated on me (42) with a 20yo. I found out he had another affair in 2008. Both of these are apparently my fault - the reason he wants a divorce is apparently my fault.
We decided to stay living in the same house through the holidays for both the kids and financial reasons. He is constantly chatting his latest and greatest. meanwhile he is "comforting" me telling me time will heal what im going through, and i'll find someone else - they wont be as good, in bed and in attentiveness of course but there will someone. I guess im the moron that thinks faithfulness would be important in being a good husband - but ...oh yeah... thats my fault he had to do that!! in the meantime he is giving me the list of what he is looking for because hes not "going to be alone long, hes an excellent husband, attractive and a good catch" why is he not going to marry the 20 yo you ask - oh! cause she gave him hepatitis!!
But he wants to be my friend and wants good things for me. 0 but thats because im going to fail, and hes going to move on and have an amazing life.ut he wants to help me *read: i'm going to rub my new life in your face evry chance i get because im a narcissist*
thanks for letting me vent - if you read this far... well... sorry...